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  • Writer's pictureAmit Deokule

How to have a continuity in relationship building as far as trainings are concerned?

Hello All,

Being a life coach, I have always realised one thing while carrying out sessions for different people and organisations...i.e. continuity in building the relationships after trainings where even practising the aspects of trainings and its frequent giving feedback strategy is always missed or skipped. Here the most important part is to take a cognisance of everything we have shared. At the same time, we always try to configure such type of trainings as something of cost which becomes a overburdened activity after certain level and that is where many times few things remain incomplete and then the link gets detached. Here the importance of the continued activity will be known once the organisation unravels certain parameters of people's performances where the resultant outcome is always lack of continuous practice  and that is why life skill trainings can not be taken casually!

One senior person from the IT stream asked me one question who was working on a higher position in a reputed software company and then he started his own IT training consultancy where soft skill training was one of the vital areas, "Amit can we have an evaluation strategy for the people who undergo soft skill trainings for specific period?" I immediately uttered , "First of all, can we observe somewhere that people can have such a training on a continuous basis because then we can have some evaluation tool through which we can get some definite answers of improvements and genuine feedback can take place then!!!" He smiled and said, "You are right Amit! Mind is a terrific and mysterious part of our body which is in reality an invisible but virtual element which hoodwinks us frequently during our life journey but that is where one's challenge always pops up because continuity remains a question as far as some practising tool to use to make certain mindful improvements in our personality is concerned!"

We sleep everyday, take bath everyday, have our lunch and dinner everyday....and it is like a natural training we have but there is a stage where one has to take care because these things are inevitable to have but we also observe some breaks in following these aspects also on time and then we know what happens....The ignorance can spoil our life...and if it is so...then why we are bothered about cost factor every time....when we know that certain things are necessary to do the overhauling to maintain the pace and momentum one should have while living life! Similarly when trainings are being extended...they get extended because of one sheer fact and i.e. proper grooming has to happen/occur where the said preaching/teachings  will be practised exactly on the basis of few tools defined! However cost always puts many positive things on toss and that becomes a hurdle in our growth path! Let us also not deny the fact that cost/budget is like considering that every one makes mistakes but then he/she is being given a chance to improve them with a certain timeline scheduled by having evaluation technique well in advance in one's kitty and everyone tries to make corrections/rectifications as per his/her capacities which is the most important aspect. Similarly one should look at trainings because third angle really works like a 3D effect and the said effect is necessary because mind is a game of perspective where stumping out someone is always possible but continuously showing consistency to play constantly well is something missing always where even player like Tendulkar or Federer or Ronaldo....who in the common parlance are being recognised as an excellent players in their games but how much consistent they have been in their career is a theory of relativity to assess! Hence when we say that it is relative term...when we actually relate things in reality with genuine thought process and that is exactly lagging behind!

Now let me know how many of you will continuously seek my training sessions! :-) Post feedback and continuous sharing will surely help where cognisance of different people in different capacities will get a chance to develop good relations with each other where Prism will not be needed to assess them but natural progression to remain connected always helps, right? Try it....experiment it and execute it!

Warm Regards, Amit Deokule Life Balance Coach Master Spirit Life Coach Global Coach of CCA, Canada Professional Musician

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