How to define Maturity ? - A challenge
- Amit Deokule
- Nov 10
- 3 min read
Till date I have handled variety of subjects but in the current times the biggest challenge that I am able to identify is; how to define Maturity???!!!
Maturity by its practical definition is easy to claim and it is nothing but
Any damn Policy is maturing.....
My age is maturing ....
Any task or product or machine attaining its maturity level with respect to capacity or potential....
The above scenarios are easy to digest when we talk about maturity and its impact!
However the following scenarios are the most challenging ones to define and those are -
1. My thoughtfulness is maturing
2. My attitude is attaining its maturity level
3. My way of treating people is maturing
4. My approach to live and lead life is maturing
5. My vision to identify my own loopholes is maturing
6. My acceprance is maturing
7. My way of being down to earth is maturing
8. My situational ethics are maturing
9. My experience is maturing
And everything related to cultured thinking, controlled behavior, urge to help others, being grounded , decency , humanity, empathetic life style , greatness with kindness, values, principled life....seems a big deal....and in most of the consequences it is an irony....!
In today's world somebody with luxuries, wealth and money is being called as a matured entity...( there is no problem in becoming rich but to what extent? And how...in what way...? )
Somebody with political dominance has a matured identity...
Somebody buying humanity and humans thereto for their own benefit is a matured entity
Somebody with no idealogy but having humongous networking circle is a matured entity
Somebody having great external appearance , dressing sense is the most maturing identity
And such similar scenarios in materialistic life are killing the real essence of being human by attaining maturity naturally
Simplicity is not maturity
Selfless dedication is a blunder
Being straight and effort taking human is a stupid one living an ordinary life
And so on and so forth....!
Where are we genuinely moving?
We do not want kind people...We want cunningness because the world is so....
We do not want caring and loving entities who can strenghthen any level of bonds in diverse communities...but we want smartness which will spoil pure minds at times
We do not want greatness growing greatness...but we just wamt to be the greatest
We do not want honesty but we want ruthless growth seekers
Ultimately at the outset defining maturity is a complex problem driving the whole world towards the end of the world...how crusading it can be ever...!!!
Giving a smile like an innocent child is dangerous in the present but giving a smile by having shattered way of inner awakening is being accepted...how devastating it can be!!!
Maturity in present conditions is an act of a devil by proving how Godliness is a madness but hey ignorant human ...you are failing in gauging implications of this because of an obscure and illisioned world!
By maruring my thought provocation I want to stop for the time being by saying,
" Hey Whole Universe please revive this immature world where everyone is just competing and comparing by spoiling fabulous relations"
In the end I just want to say that Guru with maturity is a challenging entity...one needs to trust that cosmic energy and keep his or her own inner strongness intact so that ideally Guru will come identifying you as a true disciple!
IS SOCIALMEDIA A REASON FOR GETTING CONFUSED WITH THE INTENSITY OF MATURITY WHICH SHOULD BE FELT???
- Dr. Amit
Nobel Nominee for Peace Prize
Padmashri Nominee
Executive Leadership Coach
Life Balance Coach
United Nations Peace Ambassador
Member of World Parliament
Member of IHRC
M.com and Professional Musician
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